SECRET 4: Smell Fantastic
All too often, men ignore the sense of smell. They don't bother to put on cologne or after-shave. But women know that if you're going to attract someone, you need to appeal to all the senses.
Think about the perfumes women wear that drive you wild and you'll know just how important smelling good can be.
Wearing a good cologne around a woman can do wonders to make her aroused in your presence.
SECRET 5: Be Interesting
Despite all the physical traits involved in attraction, having nothing but good looks can wear thin quickly. This is why it's important to be interesting.
Being interesting equates to having something to talk about that the person you are trying to attract can elate to.
Being up to date on current events, pop culture, music, gossip, and any number of things can help a woman feel interested in spending time with you.
But in addition to knowing what to talk about, you also have to be able to LISTEN and let the other person relate to you. After all, nothing is more interesting than someone who is interested in you.
SECRET 6: Do What's Unexpected
Doing what is not expected of you can create an air of excitement and uncertainty around you. It keeps people on their feet and attentive when around you.
Of course, you shouldn't be comical when doing the unexpected, such as suddenly shouting out a curse word or something ridiculous like that.
Instead, you have to play against expectations. For instance, instead of complimenting a girl on her looks, compliment her on her intelligence. She probably does not get a lot of compliments like that, and it will make you stand out.
Taking her out on a creative date, instead of your typical dinner-and-a-movie is unexpected as well.
When you do what's not expected of you, you keep excitement alive.
SECRET 7: Be Hot And Cold
Emotions are what must be stimulated to make attraction work. Without emotion, attraction is impossible.
But too much of one emotion is just as bad as a lack of emotion. Feeling good all the time or feeling bad all the time causes us to stray from the person we are with.
When you alternate between hot and cold emotions, you create an emotional roller coaster that keeps things interesting and your partner interested.
Women do this all the time. They will act very interested and attracted to you, and make you feel good. Then, they'll act like you're not there and ignore you, and make you feel bad.
This constant alternation of good and bad feelings keeps their partner invested in them. And men can do this too.
